2013: My Year of 'Seconds'

In 2012, I completed 20 races (including a few walks, one 38-mile bike ride and my first half marathon). I've certainly racked up the mileage and it's been a blast doing so. I've strengthened bonds with current friends and even made a few new friends. I never knew so many people enjoyed running and I can actually say I enjoy it. I never thought I would hear myself say that (or write it for that matter). My goal for 2013 is to run at least one race a month and complete two half marathons in May and September.

As I look back on an amazing year, there are still a few things I would do differently. As my father has always told me, I learn the hard way. The goal is not making the same mistakes, but rather learning from them and moving on. I've learned a lot about myself this year, particularly what I'm able to accomplish.

A few things I have learned or have been reminded about: (In no particular order)

• I'm stronger than I think I am.
• I need to visit my family more often.
• I don't give myself enough credit.
• I trust easily, but trusting can also lead to heartbreak.
• I will not be remembered for what I have accomplished. But I will be remembered for how I make people feel.
• I need to make time to blog and write more (outside of work).
• I will write more hand written thank you notes and send cards 'just because.'
• I should tell the people I care about that I love them more often.
• I will do one random act of kindness every day.

2012 was certainly my year of 'firsts.' Here's to 2013 - my year of 'seconds.' Happy New Year!