2013: My Year of 'Seconds'

In 2012, I completed 20 races (including a few walks, one 38-mile bike ride and my first half marathon). I've certainly racked up the mileage and it's been a blast doing so. I've strengthened bonds with current friends and even made a few new friends. I never knew so many people enjoyed running and I can actually say I enjoy it. I never thought I would hear myself say that (or write it for that matter). My goal for 2013 is to run at least one race a month and complete two half marathons in May and September.

As I look back on an amazing year, there are still a few things I would do differently. As my father has always told me, I learn the hard way. The goal is not making the same mistakes, but rather learning from them and moving on. I've learned a lot about myself this year, particularly what I'm able to accomplish.

A few things I have learned or have been reminded about: (In no particular order)

• I'm stronger than I think I am.
• I need to visit my family more often.
• I don't give myself enough credit.
• I trust easily, but trusting can also lead to heartbreak.
• I will not be remembered for what I have accomplished. But I will be remembered for how I make people feel.
• I need to make time to blog and write more (outside of work).
• I will write more hand written thank you notes and send cards 'just because.'
• I should tell the people I care about that I love them more often.
• I will do one random act of kindness every day.

2012 was certainly my year of 'firsts.' Here's to 2013 - my year of 'seconds.' Happy New Year!

Year of Firsts

This year has definitely been a year of “firsts.” Last summer, I decided to start running. I’m not a runner, never have been but for some reason I decided to “just do it.” Since my first 5K last October, I have competed (I use this word loosely) in 17 races including the 5-mile Turkey Trot, Warrior Dash, Mud Ninja, Color Me Rad 5k and a 38-mile bike ride in a tutu. Everything is better in a tutu!

This Sunday, October 14, I will complete the Dayton River Corridor half marathon. Since I’ve been running I wanted to cross the half off my bucket list and join the 13.1 mile club – at least once.

But let’s be honest, the REAL reason I’m participating in the half is because I made a deal with a running buddy. She joined me in Mud Ninja and cursed me weeks later for a sore shoulder and bruised tailbone. I have to admit – Mud Ninja was not easy and I was certainly proud to cross that one off my list. Since she did Mud Ninja with me, I agreed to run the half with her.

I found this image on Pinterest today and it spoke to me. I can't say I'm "scared" about the half marathon on Sunday, but I'm definitely nervous. I'm determined to finish - running, walking or crawling.

Stay tuned…

#yearoffirsts