Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Life isn't always beautiful...

...but it's a beautiful ride.

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving. As I reflect on the last year, I think about all of the things I am thankful for. It's been a challenging year, but I have recently realized that I am stronger than I thought.

Last weekend, I created a book called "Life Lessons from a Dog." It's a book with pictures of my dog Rufus and seven lessons he has taught me. I must say, dogs are very wise. We should pause and listen more often.



Lesson #1 - Smile often and love much.
Lesson #2 - Always enjoy the outdoors.
Lesson #3 - Love unconditionally.
Lesson #4 - Sometimes life is scary - don't ever give up.
Lesson #5 - Appreciate the little things.
Lesson #6 - Always be grateful, no matter where you are.
Lesson #7 - Embrace every moment like it's your last.

Lesson #4 speaks loudly to me. Life is scary at times - whether you have lost someone, going through a divorce, just learned a family member is ill, lost your job or hit rock bottom. God never promised that life would be easy. However, He did promise that He will never give you more than you can handle.

Sometimes in life you need to be vulnerable and ask for help. As an independent person, that's really hard for me to do. And the thing I'm most grateful for is that my friends and family are always willing to lend a helping hand, a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on and a story to make me laugh. I'm thankful for each and everyone one of them every day, but this year I fully understand the meaning of being grateful.

As the Gary Allen song goes, "Life isn't always beautiful, but it's a beautiful ride." Those words can never be more true.

May you have a blessed Thanksgiving and spend it in the company of loving family and friends.

3 comments:

  1. Happy Thanksgiving to you Betsy, and I am sure you can actually find more than 7 lessons from your dog if you look hard enough. We had to put our dog down after 13 years just a couple of months ago. Everyday when I sit at my computer I think of him as his face is my desktop, and the last place he ever rested in this house was under my desk. He was a great dog, and he was definitely one of the family. All of the times with him I took for granted, and now I wish I had just one of those moments back. Dogs are amazing animals, and we could learn a lot from them if we would just realize that they really are smarter creatures than we are. - Amelio

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  2. Well said Betsy :)
    Love your blog background :)

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  3. I completely agree. I'm so sorry to hear that your dog passed away. Dogs are amazing creatures.

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